My Trip Out

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I got home from Brussels late evening. Belgium, an entire country which looks like it’s falling apart, dirty, shady characters, it’s one saving grace, excellent food and beer.

Tiger Cub calls as I’m walking in the door and we begin our nightly chat. He’s got a Mac with a camera and a Skype account. Technical and TC don’t go together, but with some coaxing we manage to connect to each other. Suddenly my screen fills with live video of my little brown tiger, laying on the bed, no shirt on, phone to his ear, he acts like a teenage girl. I get all misty eyed, he’s so cute, his almond brown eyes stare into the camera. I miss him.


The camera pans down to his pants, TC what are you doing? “Oh nothing, it’s soo hot here”. Let me assume it’s hot down there too? “Yeahhh”. Somethings never change. His father suddenly brusts into the room yelling for him to get off the phone, TC yells back “If you weren’t so cheap you’d get another phone line, I’ll hang up when I want too, now go away”. Squabble, like a father-daughter, not like father-son.


TC worries, he wants me to settle down. We have seen far too many 30+ gay guys who can’t seem to find a relationship and content themselves with screwing around, “until something serious comes along”. You’ll find them any evening in a local gay bar, or dating sites or just plain hook-up sites. Old guys scanning for young faces or any face.


I’ve also seen a number of gay guys when they hit 30, they seem to have suddenly had their fill of all things queer and a horrible feeling overcomes them, they’d like to find a real partner, but where in this sea of sex do they find it. It can indeed be a lonely experience.


The reality is you only need to find one partner, the right one, and you can set the rules. Need to take my own advice. I’ve no desire to see the Cologne gay scene. I know where it is and I know what’s going on there. I can oogle guys anywhere. But right now, TC and I have a joint interest and we’ll focus on that.


Unless, of course, some Latino action is to be found.

2 Comments

  1. Your TC nightly calls (and now with added visual elements!) are just wonderful. I agree with you fully, why go look at other opportunities when you have this extremely intelligent young man (sexy too, I guess?) at your beck and call. All the best to you and TC.

  2. I can hardly wait until you meet your father in law just before the wedding in Canada…..will he be a hottie?

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