My Trip Out

Gay married man coming out story

Relax and enjoy the show

It’s 11 a.m. and my lion cub is still fast asleep in his bed. The course of the last days have revealed a sweeter TC than I’d thought possible. I’ve realized I like some of the girlier guys. It’s the woman prospective that I’m looking for.

He’s telling me how he hung out with girls in his youth and played with Barbie dolls. Watching old home videos, how he found himself so horribly gay. He’s quite comfortable with himself.  No need to pose the question, it’d already been answered. I’ve been more man in the last days. Not putting up with his crap. Cracking the whip on him. Working. I’ve got my own life. I realized he wants a real guy. It reconnects us.

I’ve resigned to just enjoy the time left together. We’re easy together and have good chemistry. So he’s lazy, doesn’t clean-up, disorganized. So what? It’s not like I’m making a life long committment here.

Decided to fly my two sons over to London for their spring break. They’re excited. TC going to go backpacking. He’s very supportative and happy to disappear for a week to allow me time with my kids.

So I putter forward again. Content for the moment.


  1. Aww, that’s cool your sons are coming to get to spend some time with ya..
    I’m glad you got to the point where you’re happy with the ways things are or will turn out if you and TC aren’t together anymore. At least, you’ll always have the memories, granted it’s not the same as the real thing, but at least it’s still something

  2. I agree. TC sounds like an absolute sweetheart. Enjoy this guy. He sounds like a keeper to me. He’s such a sweet littly pussycat. How could you get mad at him? Stop being such a bossy guy and enjoy this doll. Don’t mess this up!

  3. Hmmm, so that’s the key – he was just waiting for you to put your foot down! Well done! Being somewhat of an expert on short-term or holiday romances, I can agree with your comment “Relax and enjoy the show” – that’s exactly how to treat these things! And yes, you’ll end up with some lovely memories. 🙂
    Enjoy your kids too!!!

  4. The end is near…do you still see your children? You never mention them..your wife yes but not the children?

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