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Gay married man coming out story

You can’t marry a cock

I’m listening to my anally retentive friend Clay tell me how “he has to be physically attracted to someone for him to have a relationship”. It’s like it’s some deep hidden secret he’s discovered about how to get the right relationship. I think few straight people get married with the thought, “gee honey, you’re one fucking ugly broad, but hey you’ll make a good mommy, so I’m gonna marry you”. OF course there’s is a physical attraction to any long lasting relationship.

Men think with their dicks. Well understood by every woman. An gay men, really think with their dicks. Clearly, there is excitement with someone new, but like a Christmas present, once you’ve opened the package, well it ain’t new no more and the excitement level diminishes and what’s left? Not a whole lot. I also think men hate to reveal themselves to someone else. So in a one night stand, they have nothing to lose by being opening about what they want. “Make me your slave boi!”. But with the morning light, embarrassment sets in, “oh god did I say that”.  Either way, Christmas is over and off you go, never to be seen again. The game timer goes back to zero.

I continue to believe that sex is the leading cause of screw ups in gay relationships. Either too much sex with too many people or later the converse, not enough sex and you turn out to be roommates. It would seem some balance could be struck.

Unfortunately, you can’t marry a cock and to have a relationship, you have to deal with the whole person. I’m afraid this is a hard maneuver for men. It requires a significant change of how we’re programmed to operate. It can be done, but you have to make an concerted effort. Women have long ago learned to keep a man, they have to entice him to be a good partner so they can earn some vagina fun time.  It clearly sounds warped, particularly for those of us who believe we have a firm grasp of gravity.

TC UPDATE: Obviously, twinkie Tyler blows or rather doesn’t blow well enough, TC has informed the ship of his departure, they understood, he did the right thing the right way and with a bit of luck the brown tiger will appear in DC sometime on Saturday night.

1 Comment

  1. This one is depressing….maybe I need to be converted to the other side!

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