That is until he drops the line during conversation, “… and my therapist says …”. He mentions this like he’s thinking of cooking steaks on the grill tomorrow night. I don’t stop to question him about this, but am thinking, “what’s wrong with you?”. I mean, I know I’m a nut job, but him, I don’t see it.
I’ve skimming a couple of books on gay relationships. For the most part it’s pretty basic, “don’t call your boyfriend a cheating whore slut, if you want a good relationship” kind of stuff. I’m concluding is gay guys have a twist to their DNA and how they manage relationships, I need to figure it out. It’s not bad, it’s just different from those I can remember with previous girlfriends. I used to get torn up when a guy played one of their cards on me, but now, I understand it’s simply their way of dealing and protecting themselves.
What’s clear is everyone has a story on how they got here and getting over that can be a long and drawn out process.