My Trip Out

Gay married man coming out story

I’m not horny anymore

Thanks for caring. I’m in Toronto after spending a night with Tiger Cub near white trash central, otherwise known as Niagara Falls. Tiger Cub is clearly in love, you can just see it in his eyes. He’s scared though, so am I.


A young friend of mine, who occasionally follows this blog, wrote me a long & sincere note, he’s worried. He’s worried that TC may not be the right person for me. He wasn’t worried about TC’s young age, mainly that TC doesn’t have his life together and this spells a world of issues. My friend thinks I deserve something better and not to be fearful of “letting this one get away”, that if I keep looking, I will indeed find what I want. He closed with “that right someone is looking for you now”.


I sent a reply of appreciation. I’m glad he cared enough to raise a thorny personal issue and risk alienating me. My friend did so either because he didn’t really care about his relationship with me or that he actually cared too much. I assumed the latter.


None of the issues he raised were new. Indeed, I’ve thought many of them myself. How many of us have witnessed personal relationships of a friend that we just knew were going to end well, yet were powerless to do anything about it. Like watching an accident happen, to scared to watch, to fascinated to look away.


I’ve come to the belief that all things just work out though sometimes not immediately. I’m not good with all this personal stuff, but I’m content for the moment to let this roulette wheel continue to spin.

3 Comments

  1. i’m going to toronto next month. and niagara. i’ll look up TC.

  2. I say “Good for You’. You will know if it is right or not and ultimately make the right decision. Enjoy life and whatever makes you happy.

  3. When love comes it’s hard to ignor her siren call….

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