Single in the City berating me via email that I need to get on or off with the relationship with TC. Ah .. but I have learned from my experiences. The situation I have right now with TC is incredibly simple. I’m trying to sort out my life and that’s priority 1. He is doing similar.
We were all quite logic about how & why TC returned to Toronto and how the game would hopefully play out. What we failed, once again, to account for is our mutual emotion for each other. In short, we don’t like being far away from each other. We’d be quite content alone on a desert island. I don’t know what the magical compound that binds us together, suffice that we’ve both thought long and hard about it and have decided to throw caution to the wind, ignore what may be obvious and simply put our hearts on the line and ride it out.
We both have recognized that gay relationships are difficult. Like Dust in the Wind, they’re all but one stiff breeze from blowing away. Queers pride themselves on being independent, running at the first shot fired, blogging about why they’re alone. Let me be the first to say, I’m emotionally dependent upon TC and feel similar radiating back from him.
Odd birds that we might be, we value what we’ve got. Prof. Tim handicapping the situation, is betting TC folds up shop in a month and heads back home with me. I hope so, we’re both happier that way. Growling brown tiger that he is.