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Gay married man coming out story

Balls and chains

I don’t know if you’ve been following the divorce proceedings between super model, Christie Brinkley and her now former husband Peter Cook, it’s certainly been an interesting view from afar. Seems her 49 year old husband was caught having an affair with an 18 year old babysitter. If that wasn’t occupying him enough, she was a little concerned about his spending huge amounts of money on Internet porn.

No doubt they’re both quite embarassed by all this publicity. But what happened? Is Peter just a no good for nut’in lying cheating bastard? Wasn’t a super model able to keep him sexually happy? Or did they just fail to talk about things, little secrets becoming big secrets. I’d suspect the latter.

We all want sexual fidelity but we want our partner to be more upstanding than ourselves. I have talked very openly with TC about sexual needs, a first for me, and I want to know his. I’m open to anything that will make him happy and I want him to be open to my needs. You don’t know until you try. Now clearly there are limits for all of us and if that’s not good enough, well it may be time to move on.

It was obvious no one had talked with TC like that before. I think he was bit embarassed though he listened intently. So no big surprise when the other night in the heat of a moment he whispered a few things and I happily obligated. He was a happy little tiger and I was happy he was happy (damn if we ain’t all happy folks here). A valuable lesson learned.

I’m off to Chicago this morning, Prof. Tim hiding cute Latinos under the guest bed (in case I need a midnight snack). We’ll see how this goes.


  1. Now this was a post….and how true it is, but mostly ignored in relationships.
    The trick is to remember to remember it.
    So exactly what did TC ask for (LOL).

  2. I’m glad to see that you and TC are exploring your sexual sides. So far, you’ve painted a great picture about you and the tiger cub, but you’ve mostly focused on the strong emotional and intellectual ties that bind you … his wisdom about all things gay, his smile, his messy ways, his drug use (your little pot head tiger cub – sometimes an occasional hangover). It is clear that you and the tiger cub have a meaningful and lasting relationship, but it’s now finally seeming as if the sex is getting really good as well (to match the minds 🙂 ). Wonderful! You two are just the luckiest guys in the world to have found each other. Now don’t you be doing no drama in Chicago! That Tiger Cub is too special to let go off; you will never find anyone as amazing as he is.

  3. speaking of nasty divorces…you legally single yet?

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