My Trip Out

Gay married man coming out story

Alone again, naturally

There are plenty of queers writing blogs. Sexually explicit, being bitchy or talking about flower arrangements. You’re not reading me for that reason. You’re reading because you’re on a similar path and my reality TV show seems a bit too familiar. I’m different and you know it.

I had a girlfriend (eventually live-in) for 5 years and then a wife for now 16+ years. I don’t have a bunch of friends I hang out with. I don’t have a fag hag. I’m not a party person. I don’t want a roommate. I’m ambitious but not to the point I want to work around the clock (oops almost spelled that cock). I almost effortlessly sailed between my wife and TC with only the merest of speed bumps. I’m not uncomfortable being alone, but clearly I’ve had a companions for the last now 20 years.

So now what exactly in the hell I am I supposed to do?

People get divorced, their friends hook them back up, they can hang out with other guys and discuss snatch. They can find another divorced woman with issues or snag some trashy slut to bang around with. Divorce, nothing new and a well worn path to the ‘next’ thing.

It is not a fait accompli that my story will end in tragedy or for that matter a blissful hereafter. But it’s the sheer uncertainty that is driving me crazy. It’s simply too many moving parts that is gonna drive me nuts. 2009 was a struggle for me financially and it now looks like 2010 will be the year of the emotional struggle. What to do?

I have an idea. Chicago. Mexicans. New Year’s Eve. Full whore mode.  Beam me up, Scotty!

fait accompli


  1. Go for it…………oh and then we want a detailed blog about it.

    After all fairs, fair.

  2. OMG! You ar starting to sound like me! Dont be like me…jaded…cynical…sad…depressed.

    Now, go on to Chicago and have youself a merry time….shag a mexican or two and break some hearts (not the wallet!)

    We can be single in DC in 2010!

  3. Cheer up, being alone is just a temporary state. It comes and goes 🙂 I tried to go traveling myself once in a while.

  4. Thank you so much, there aren’t enough posts on this… or at least i cant find them. I am turning into such a blog nut, I just cant get enough and this is such an important topic… i’ll be sure to write something about your site

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